Hearing Hearts Ministries

A Mission of Understanding

Hearing Hearts is a platoon of Christian Warriors seeking to comply with God's will in thought and deed as His servants laboring in the fields of His harvest.
Planting seeds of peace, truth, and harmony with humility and compassion. Reaping the fruits of healthier and more complete relationships in our lives and the lives of those around us. Our families, our neighbors, our co-workers, our schools, our state, our country, our world.

UNDERSTANDING: The ability to translate meaning from facts. Once the facts and circumstances are clear, we become knowledgeably aware of the character and nature needed to become an understanding person, one who can know how others are feeling. With this knowledge, God the Holy Spirit can guide your interactions with them and empower us to help them.

Addiction is the #1 public health crisis in America. We are in an undeclared war. Our enemy has invaded our homeland and is taking no prisoners. In 2022, the CDC reported that 109,680 people died because of fentanyl overdoses. Although medical treatments are improving with access to Narcan to reverse overdoses, only 1 in 10 Americans experiencing addiction currently seek treatment. At this rate, studies predict the number of overdose deaths could reach 1.2 million by the end of this decade.
The human brain is a marvelous, complex creation of God. Addiction corrupts what God made to be wonderous. Whether it’s alcohol, prescription pain pills, nicotine, gambling, or something else, overcoming an addiction isn’t as simple as just stopping or exercising greater control over impulses. It is thought that addiction develops when the pleasure circuits in the brain get overwhelmed, in a way that can become chronic and sometimes even permanent. The hormone dopamine factors greatly in this process. 

According to Yale Medicine, when a person develops an addiction to a substance, addictive substances trigger an outsized response when they reach the brain. Instead of a simple, pleasurable surge of dopamine, many drugs of abuse—such as opioids, cocaine, or nicotine—cause dopamine to flood the reward pathway, 10 times more than a natural reward. The brain remembers this surge and associates it with the addictive substance.

Webster defines understanding as the ability to perceive or interpret the intended meaning of words,
a language, or a speaker. The ability to translate meaning from facts. Once the facts and circumstances
are clear, we can become knowledgeably aware of the character or nature of being an understanding
person, one who can know how other people are feeling, and forgive them if they do something wrong.
Once we understand how other people are likely to feel, then God the Holy Spirit can guide our
interactions with them. With His guidance, we can begin to put the broken pieces back together and do
things. Wisdom is knowing what to do next!


This wisdom is not mankind’s intelligence or knowledge. This wisdom comes from growing in the
grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! The wisdom spoken of in James 3: 13-17 Who
is there among you who is wise and intelligent? Then let him by his noble living show forth his [good]
works with the [unobtrusive] humility [which is the proper attitude] of true wisdom. 14) But if you have
bitter jealousy (envy) and contention (rivalry, selfish ambition) in your hearts, do not pride yourselves on
it and thus be in defiance of and false to the TRUTH. 15) This [superficial] wisdom is not such as comes
down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual (animal), even devilish (demoniacal). 16) For wherever
there is jealousy (envy) and contention (rivalry and selfish ambition), there will also be confusion
(unrest, disharmony, rebellion) and all sorts of evil and vile practices17) But the wisdom from above is first of all pure (undefiled); then it is peace-loving, courteous (considerate, gentle). [It is willing to] yield to reason, full of compassion and good fruits; it is wholehearted, and straightforward, impartial and unfeigned (free from doubts, wavering, and insincerity).


An understanding heart is just one means by which God works through His people. He can use us to
build healthier, more complete relationships in our life, and the lives of those around us. Our families,
our neighbors, our co-workers, our communities, our schools, our state, our country, our world!

James 3:18 And the harvest of righteousness (of conformity to God’s will in thought and deed) is [the
fruit of the seed] sown in peace by those who work for and make peace [in themselves and in others,
that peace which means concord, agreement, and harmony between individuals, with undisturbedness,
in a peaceful mind free from fears and agitating passions and moral conflicts].

What comes to mind when you hear the word addict? 

Could you possibly be one? 

What do you know about addiction, and its causes? 

I pray you have never had to research these questions or give them
much thought. As a father who lost a son to an addiction, may I share with you that which I have
learned?

Dopamine is known as the “feel-good” hormone. Your body makes it, and your nervous system uses
it. Your brain uses dopamine to give you the sense of pleasure, your “reward system” so to say, which
gives you the feeling that you’re on top of the world and motivates you to want to repeat the
experience.

An addiction is an activity, substance, or thing a person uses to avoid dealing with some of the harsh
realities of life. Seventy percent of Americans have some kind of addiction. Who, what, or where do you
run to when you need to feel better about yourself? Your phone perhaps? Take a quick glance around
you and see how many faces are buried in their screens. Did you know this activity releases dopamine?
Speaking of faces, your social media “likes” and “comments” releases dopamine and causes you to feel
the acceptance you are seeking from your peers. Some other common addictions may be shopping,
alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, pornography, marijuana, and even gossip. Some people are so absorbed in
other people’s lives and what they are doing that it is all they can talk about. They slander and malign
them so that they can feel better than “those people”

There are many reasons given why people find themselves stuck in the pattern of addiction. Genetics
or traits passed down from parents to children. Mental illness and isolating or withdrawing from
physical, social, spiritual, or emotional activities due to physical, sexual, or verbal abuse. Peer pressure
or seeking the acceptance of others may influence our beliefs of what is right or wrong. Traumatic
childhood experiences such as witnessing violence. Self-medicating to ease the pain of coping with
health issues like anxiety, depression, or stress, caused by many of the reasons just mentioned above.

In this day and time drug overdoses are not what we tend to think of when we hear about someone
dying. Most likely it is not because they took too much of a drug. A synthetic opioid has been being
added to drugs within the last couple of years. It is manufactured in China and being brought over the
Mexican border daily.

This is why so many more people are dying. Lab testing reveals that 3 out of 5 pills sold illegally have a
lethal dose of fentanyl in them. A lethal dose is the amount comparable to a piece of sea salt. Fentanyl is
50-100 times more potent than morphine. There are people dying who have not even become addicted
to drugs. One pill taken with a lethal dose of fentanyl in it can kill you within minutes.

There is a stigma attached to drug addiction but let us remember that these people are children of
God just like me and you. Has anyone woken up one day and said to themselves “I want to be addicted
to cigarettes, caffeine, video games, alcohol, pornography, or even food.” No, we have not, but some of
us are. The drug addict did not aspire to be addicted to drugs. At some point in all our lives we have
done things we shouldn’t have, and we just didn’t get caught.

Have you ever driven under the influence? Some get a DWI, and some don’t get caught. Have you ever
had unprotected sex as a teenager? Some get pregnant, and some don’t get caught. Have you ever lied
to someone? Some get away with the lie and some get caught. Maybe you’ve eaten fatty foods all your
life. Some have a heart attack, and some don’t get caught. The drug addict is no different than you or
me, they just got caught. We know nothing about the choices of these broken souls. We don’t know the
horrific storms they’ve survived, their circumstances, loss, demons, abuse, torture, or generational
curses.

I’d like to offer some food for thought and by food, I mean the BREAD of LIFE

Jesus healed the blind – disease

He forgave the thief – choice

He healed the leper – disease

He forgave the murderer – choice

He healed the woman with the blood disorder – disease

He forgave the world of all its sins – Thank God he made that choice. 

That’s who Jesus is. I believe that
when addicts die from overdose Jesus weeps just like He wept for Lazarus. These people were
someone’s child, sibling, spouse, mother, father. They were someone’s heart. Let us not forget that!
Let us remember that God’s grace does not discriminate. God saves the liars, the abused, the criminals,
the alcoholics, the prostitutes, the drug dealers, the drug addicts.
Everyone is a sinner save by God’s abundant grace!

Every human being is born in captivity to sin. John 8:34 Jesus answered them, Truly, Truly, I say unto you, whosoever committeth sin is the servant (slave) of sin. He also said in Matt 6:24 No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold (be loyal to) the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon (riches). Ungodly habits typically begin as an attempt to fulfill a desire or need in the wrong way. We become enslaved to sinful acts, habits, or attitudes. 
Paul the apostle explained his feelings of defeat in Romans 7 beginning in verse 14 when he says...I am carnal (fleshly) sold into bondage to sin; and again in vs 18... For I know that nothing good dwells within me (that is, in my flesh); also in vs 21...I find that when I want to do good, evil is present in me. Paul cries out in vs 24...O wretched man that I am! Who will set me free! Jesus Christ has set Believers free from condemnation of sin! He tells us so in John 3: 14-20 And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: 15) that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. 16) For God so loved the world, that He gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17) For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18) He that believeth in him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19) And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20) For everyone that doeth [practices) evil hateth the light, lest his deeds should be reproved [exposed]
Salvation is God's grace gift to you but you have to decide to accept it. The most important decision you'll ever make in your life is to accept or to reject the Lord Jesus Christ as your Savior. Each of us is born in a lost state because we are all born spiritually dead and therefore separated from God. In John chapter 3, God tells us about Nicodemus, one of the greatest Jewish leaders of his time. He thought since he was as religious and righteous as he could possibly be, he did not need a savior. He couldn't figure out who Christ was so he met with Jesus one night to try to understand. He said to Jesus, "Master, no one could do the miracles (signs) you do unless God sent him or God is with him". Jesus answered and said vs 3 "Verily, verily, I say unto you, except a man be born again (or from above), he cannot see the Kingdom of God". Nicodemus asked, "How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter the second time into his mothers' womb, and be born again"? Jesus answered, vs 5 Verily, verily, I say unto you, except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the Kingdom of God". Vs 6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit". At the moment of salvation, receiving God's grace gift and accepting Jesus Christ as your savior, God the Holy Spirit indwells you and brings your dead human spirit to life. You are spiritually awakened! You are Born again!!! Ephesians 2: 4-5 concurs, 4) But, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened (made us alive)together with Christ  (by grace you are saved).
If you haven't made the most important decision in your life on where you will spend eternity, please don't wait another minute. In silent prayer and a humble heart pray something like this, "Heavenly Father, I believe your Son Jesus Christ died on the cross for me. I accept Him as my Savior. Thank you. In Jesus Christ name I pray, Amen". So now the battle begins!! Now that you are indwelled with the Holy Spirit you are never without strength with His help. You're no longer a slave to sin, but instead a slave to righteousness (Romans 6:12-19). Christ has set you free from condemnation of sin, but fighting against it is still a challenge. Enjoy the freedom Christ has won for you. You are spiritually alive with a new nature created in righteousness, holiness, and truth; but you still live in a fleshly, fallen body that's bent toward sin. That is why you will still feel an internal conflict. Through Christ and through identification with Him, we have been delivered from the dominion of sin. We are free from the power of sin, which produces despair. We are free from the penalty of sin, but we are not free of the presence of sin which spells temptation. We are free from the power of sin, but we are not free from the possibility of sin which can spell failure. We have the holiness of God's standard on one hand and on the other the weakness of the flesh that has this internal dynamic of sin. Battling the internal dynamic of the SPIRIT. We may be slaves of a new Master, but we still live in enemy territory; we live behind enemy lines. Becoming a Christian does not end the battle with sin, it begins the battle!! Sin is no longer your sovereign, but it is still your adversary! Growing in Christ involves developing an awareness of how sinful you really are, so that you constantly turn to, run to, and depend upon Jesus Christ-your Advocate, your Savior, your Redeemer. Believe the Holy Spirit will enable you to deny your sinful desires and walk in obedience with God. Fill your mind with Biblical Truth! You will always battle sin to some degree, but the outcome is certain. After death or when Christ returns, we will be completely free from sin and won't ever struggle with it again. 

Unbeliever
An unbeliever would never say, as in Romans 7:18... nothing good dwells within me... An unbeliever says, "You can't believe how good I am... if you really knew me, you'd never say I might go to hell one day... in fact, God knows me so well, he knows I'm a pretty good guy". An unbeliever would never concur with God's law which says according to Romans 310... there is none righteous, not even one period or as verse 23 states... for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.

An unbeliever would never say "I hate sin: as Paul says at the end of verse 7:15... I am doing the very thing I hate. An unbeliever does not hate sin, he looks for it, he plans it, he sets it up, he saves up his money and buys it, he encourages it, he applauds it. What he hates about sin are the consequences: he hates getting caught, he hates the brokenness and turmoil of relational sin, he hates the diseases of sexual sin, he hates the penalties and punishments of evil sin... but he does not hate sin.

Believer
Only a Christian hates sin. Only Christian hates to offend God and bring dishonor to his name. Only a believer sees the wretchedness of this sin. Only a believer, though failing to practically meet the holy standards of God's law, would still say "O how I love your law"! psalms 11: 97. The more spiritual a believer is, the greater his sensitivity to his shortcomings will be

2021 US National Survey 
on Drug Use and Health:

46.3M

10.8M

1M

(16.5%) American
adults (aged 12 and older) have battled substance addiction
in the past year


American adolescents
and young adults battled
substance addiction in the past year.

Since 2000, more than one million people in the US
have died of drug overdoses, the majority of which were due to opioids.
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